It can feel tough at times. Sometimes you reach a place where you feel like you’re just one of those people who has bad luck with women and that’s why “Ms Perfect” hasn’t appeared in your life yet? Or perhaps you’ve come to the conclusion that she only exists in the movies and that the real world doesn’t hold any hope for you? You may be feeling a little disillusioned and have decided at some level, that that “perfect someone” just doesn’t exist, or that if she does, she won’t be looking for you.
The truth of the matter is that the reason Ms. Perfect hasn’t appeared has nothing to do with your luck, good or bad, but everything to do with you and the fact that you are busy looking for a person that doesn’t exist! You can’t date with your eyes closed and some impossible dream in your head. You’ll get so caught up in this whole exercise of dating that you forget to look for the qualities you seek! You haven’t met the person of your dreams because you aren’t looking for the things that will make them close enough to perfect for you.
You are so confident that every woman you have met could not give you what you wanted. But what was it that you wanted in the first place? Once you are sure of what you want, you will know exactly what to look for in your woman. What are the qualities that you feel are necessary in a person? What are the attributes you are willing to make a compromise on? Have you thought about all these?
Remember, that nobody on this earth is perfect. Everybody has faults – some are bigger faults than other faults. Some are faults you can overlook and some are faults that you can’t overlook on your best day and if she was the most beautiful, most sexy woman on the planet.
When you meet a woman, remember, however hard you try to impress others, you cannot control their thought processes. Instead, it’s far better to concentrate on your needs and desires, and how much of what is important to you would be fulfilled if you dated this woman.